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Living and Dancing
in San Diego with the Champions
A visit to
the home of Ron Montez
By Kim Knode
Published June 2001
America is most familiar with Ron Montez
as the co-host of the popular PBS series,
Championship Ballroom Dancing. In
the international DanceSport (ballroom dancing)
community, the seven-time U.S. Latin champion
is not just a handsome face on television.
Montez is the back by popular demand
expert at competitions and in dance schools
due to decades of experience as a dancer,
coach and adjudicator.
The retired competitor is frequently invited
to fly away from his twenty-year San Diego
sanctuary to judge DanceSport competitions
and conduct classes in the rhythm dances
(distinguished by a controlled wiggle called
Cuban hip motion) such as salsa and cha-cha.
For instance, this summer, Montez will pack
his bags to join fellow ballroom celebrities
at dance camps for adults. (The sell-out
camps are a far cry from scout outings into
the woods.) Spacious ballrooms sparkling
with chandeliers in places seductive like
Las Vegas to sedate like Provo, Utah see
top talent gather to teach dance fans at
premium prices.
In addition to the airfare and admission
into the dance camps, DanceSport enthusiasts
will often pay eighty-five dollars and up
for a private one hour session with Montez.
In addition to waltz workshops and such,
students often get a chance to compete and
perform, which adds up to adjudication dollars
for experienced judges like Montez. However,
as lucrative as the events outside of Southern
California may be, San Diegos dancing
man prefers to stay close to home.
So DanceSport competitors from all over
follow their road maps and dreams of golden
trophies to visit the wizard of Latin dancing
in San Diego. (Traffic may increase with
the approach of the possible entrance of
DanceSport ballroom dancing - into
the 2008 Olympics.) If the dancers are lucky
enough to garner an appointment, the Champion
Ballroom Academy on Fifth Avenue is where
they generally meet Montez. (In 1995,
the school was voted as the best dance studio
in America. The owner, Mary Murphy is also
a U.S. ballroom dance champion.)
After weeks of telephone tag, I am the
fortunate one who is granted an early April
sixty-minute interview at the champions
home. Montez promises to squeeze me into
his schedule on a lunch break away from
his duties as judge at the Southwestern
Regional Dance Championships held at the
Holiday Inn San Diego-On The Bay.
Gazing out of the taxicab window en route
from the San Diego Amtrak Station to the
Montez residence, I see a myriad of streets
all starting with El Camino (meaning the
way in Spanish). Blooming hydrangeas,
foxgloves and other botanical delights spring
forth from meticulously manicured gardens.
Houses stand proud and pretty with coats
of freshly painted pastel pinks, yellows
and blues. The sky is filled with puffy
white clouds. Is this paradise? (I am knocked
back to reality as the East African taxi
driver tells me of his escape to San Diego
for a better life.)
Arriving at the address on my post-it,
I cut an amicable deal with the cabbie.
(He agrees to wait an hour and take me back
to the train station.) I knock on the door
of the picture postcard house and am greeted
by Karla Montez, a former Jazz dancer. Her
form-fitting black top and pants accentuates
her trim figure. She is a mother of
three and still looks fit as a fiddle. (Perhaps
it is the running after her four year old
that burns the calories. Or maybe it is
all cha-cha and mambo she does with her
husband in their video series, Anyone Can
Dance.)
She graciously accepts my arriving early
for the interview. With a smile, Karla
directs me to wait on one of her Easter
egg blue couches. Heading into the kitchen,
she says, Ron should be home
pretty soon.
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Framed family photos smile back at me from
every corner. My eye wanders from a baby
boy wearing only his daddys necktie
to a tanned Montez family with leis around
their necks looking like they are enjoying
a Caribbean cruise.
I follow the trail of pictures of the Montez
children at different ages to a placard
studded with red hearts that reads,
One hundred years from now, it will
not matter what kind of car I drove
Or
how much money I had in my bank account
The last line reads, But the world
may be a little better because I was important
in the life of a child. |
I do not see any trophies or award certificates
or even dancing photos of the champion.
I only see that Ron and Karla Montez are
champions of the family. My impression
of stepping on to the set of The Donna Reed
Show is enforced as Karla comes out of the
kitchen with a tray of freshly brewed coffee
and freshly baked blueberry muffins!
She sets her goodie laden tray on the (polished)
coffee table and pries open the lid of a
rose red tin. Karla says, These homemade
chocolates were a gift to us. I cant
eat them all! She starts to offer
me one of the scrumptious morsels but spies
a dark chocolate that has been sampled.
Removing the confection from the mix, Karla
laughs. Looks like a Ron!
I decline the chocolates but not Karlas
blueberry feather light muffins. In between
bites, I comment on the tranquility in her
home. She grins and explains that
her four-year old son is with a trusted
sitter. Also, as a gift to her husband,
she turns off the music before he comes
home. Ron likes to listen to talk
radio because he hears music all day.
And Im hearing the kids talking all
the time so Im always turning off
the talk radio and turning on music.
What kind of music? I ask.
Karla chuckles and answers, With
two kids in the house, I like anything that
is calm! I usually listen to easy listening
stations like 96.5.
The quiet is broken with a barking dog.
Montez makes a grand entrance into his home.
His stride is strong and sure. Montez carries
an aura of a man who is comfortable in the
spotlight.
Montez looks exactly like the man I see
on PBS with raven black hair and eyes sitting
with perfect posture opposite actresses
like Sandy Duncan and Barbara Eden who effervesce
with oos and ahs
while competitors razzle-dazzle with flashy
moves and rhinestone studded costumes. (Montez,
in contrast to his female co-hosts, provides
commentary in an even tone on the footwork
and choreography of the dancers dueling
for the title of champion.)
As Montez settles himself on the sofa,
I ask him about his history. The dancer
who was an undefeated Latin dance champion
for seven years explains, When I finished
high school, I was kind of up in the air.
I didn't know what I wanted to do. My sister
had the bright idea of getting me involved
in some kind of ballroom dance teacher training
course. My sister and brother-in-law were
Arthur Murray instructors in Arizona.
Cracking a small smile, he continues, So
I said OK. I didn't have anything better
to do at the moment.
But when Montez started the training with
his first teacher, Nancy Elliott, he felt
a surge of enthusiasm. Nancy presented
ballroom dancing to me in such a way that
it was very appealing. She presented the
masculine and feminine roles in a way that
were right and well balanced to me.
I ask him to translate his statement.
Well the man's role - what he was
supposed to do, what he was supposed to
look like, the way he was supposed to conduct
himself, the way he was supposed to move
versus the female. You had a secure position
of what you were supposed to do either
sex.
Montez confesses that, Of course,
in the beginning I didn't know anything
about teaching - a little bit about dancing
maybe. But I loved dancing. And I
got hooked!
And Arthur Murray students got hooked on
Montezs magic touch in the classroom.
He acknowledges that, I was teaching
all the time
The lessons just sold
themselves!
After years of playing dance professor,
however, he found himself burnt out.
Montez says that, I hadn't been receiving
a lot information. I was hungry for any
kind of information - even dance information.
So he seized an opportunity to attend Brigham
Young University. For a while it gave
me a chance to soak up something,
he says.
Book learning was not
the only thing Montez absorbed at BYU. I
did my first competition in 1972 in ballroom
while I attended Brigham Young. Like
a scientist reciting the results of an experiment,
he recalls, It was my first competition.
And I got a taste of competition and the
thrilling aspect of it. I thought that it
was motivating and a lot fun.
How did he place? I
won the Rising Star Division and was like
fourth or fifth in the Professional Division.
I liked being successful, being able to
express myself and have people appreciate
it.
His joy carried him
into seven continuous United States Latin
Champion titles from 1979 through 1985.
He retired in 1986 from competition dancing.
Nearly a decade later he began a new challenge
when he exchanged marriage vows with Karla.
Montez declares that, Family is the
biggest challenge of all. I mean dancing
is attainable if you just do it! With
conviction he continues, But you are
not confronted with the challenge and the
problems. You also dont get the fulfillment
of home and family life.
As a father of three, he still marvels
at, My family interacting with one
another and learning and growing and becoming
more responsible - that development is such
an amazing thing.
As parents and as dance professionals,
I ask how the couple feels about DanceSport
training and ballroom dancing in the Olympics.
Karla replies with conviction. There
are not enough ballroom dance workshops
especially in San Diego. She
adds, Ashley (her teenage daughter
from a former marriage) used to compete.
Ron choreographed her (award-winning) Latin
routines. But her partner moved away to
Boston. Its hard to find young boys
who dance. (Ashley is now a member
of a cheerleading competition team.)
Besides the lack of an infrastructure of
ballroom schools for children in America,
Montez says, there is the perception
problem. Most Olympic officials think ballroom
dancing is a social thing for nightclubs
- nothing to do with athletics.
He adds that, I would welcome ballroom
dancing as an Olympic sport. Young people
would flock to dancing. Montez
maintains, Ballroom dancing is healthy
you learn cooperation and you get
exercise. You concentrate on the music and
you work with another person on certain
technical aspects together.
Montez looks at his wife and she nods her
head in agreement. He continues, You
participate with a person of the opposite
sex with music as your medium. Montez
adds that ballroom dancing allows for a
natural development of a relationship over
time. Interaction is not forced and
can fully develop as dance instruction takes
the foreground.
The promulgation and entry of DanceSport
into the Olympics, however, does not keep
the former champion awake at nights. Uppermost
in the mind of Montez is his family.
Dancing is an instrument I use to
provide for my family. Family is my focus
now.
Besides spending time with his family,
what are the former Latin champions
favorite pastimes? Montez smiles. Well,
I enjoy reading biographical books.
Right now, I am reading everything I can
about the life of Jesus Christ on this earth
and his death.
Anything else you like to do? I ask.
Karla mimes a man sprawled out on the sofa.
Montez admits that, Yes. I like to
watch football.
It is reassuring to know that the former
champion who moves like a Greek god on the
dance floor partakes in the mortal pleasures
of a San Diego Chargers game! And
the Chargers may not come close to championship
trophies this season!
However, as I walk away from my interview
with Ron and Karla Montez and I hear the
taxi honk his horn; a muse whispers in my
ear. After climbing to the top of
Mount Olympus, you get a view of the bigger
picture.
| Kim
Knode's interview articles focusing
on artists, celebrities and dance champions
have been published in various print
and on-line publications. |
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| See
more of Kim's work at www.kimknode.com |
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