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Hair-B-Gone!
By Margarita Dominguez, In Los Angeles.
Published July 2000
They don't teach you about hair removal in school. What works best in each area of the human body? For the sake of all women and men, we attempt to find out.

This article received so many thousands of hits, we gave it a sister article on hair replacement called Hair-B-Back!
Feedback about this article appears at the end.

From the tops of our heads to the tops of our toes, we are literally covered with hair follicles. A lot of men wish that the follicles on top of their heads were a little more active, but for the most part, our ancestral link to early man produces body hair that we regard as unwanted.  

But hair removal is complicated. What works in one area of the body can be a terrible thing to do to another part of the body. Some methods are very painful, some are very expensive, some have side effects, and some are permanent. Why didn’t we get instructions with our bodies?  

There are differing opinions out there regarding the method of choice for the area in question, but we hope that this article will guide some readers away from mistakes, and towards the right path to smoothness.

But before we get into hair removal, let’s examine one strange alternative, bleaching. Some women use special bleach to make their facial or body hair lighter, so that it stands out less. They somehow convince themselves that if their moustaches and beards change from brunette to platinum blonde, no one will see the hair. While they are performing this operation, they are looking at the hair in the mirror. When it’s over, they admire their handiwork in the same mirror. Somehow they don’t realize that if they can observe the result, so can everyone else in their world who isn’t blind. Bleach ladies take note; you have little white beards and moustaches! We can see them! When you get a tan you look like Santa Claus. You really need to read this article. Don’t bleach ever again, okay?

Some people would prefer not to remove their body hair. This is quite socially acceptable for men. Even Gorilla like men can look pretty macho when naturally hairy. Bodybuilders, however, often choose to remove all of their body hair so that it is possible to see the definition that they have worked so hard for. What’s the point of having six-pack abs if all you can see is the same hairy tummy carpet as before you began training?

Even some women prefer not to shave their underarms or legs. However, whether we like it or not, world beauty standards dictate that we should admire a smooth, hairless female body more than a natural hairy one. Therefore, the hair removal industry exists.

In ancient times, women would get thread and roll it up their legs and over their chin and upper lip. The twine would catch their hair and pluck it out. This natural approach, known as threading, is still offered by some modern beauty salons, and it’s very effective for older people with very loose skin, but science has provided the rest of us with many superior alternatives.

There is hot waxing, cold or Persian waxing (also called Sugaring), shaving, clipping, tweezing, electrolysis, laser treatment, depilatory creaming, and hormone inhibiting. Even the threading has electric versions featuring rubber wheels, (remember Epilady in the Eighties?)

We will address each area of the female and male bodies, starting at the eyebrows and ending at the toes. But first, let’s take a brief look at each method of hair removal.

Methods.

Hot wax could be done at home, but it really should be left to the professionals. If it’s a little too hot it can burn you, and if it’s too thick, it can pull off too many layers of skin and cause serious injury that way. It’s safe enough in the hands of a beautician though. Basically, the lady in the white coat spreads a thin layer of wax over the area and immediately presses a strip of cotton cloth onto the wax, then pulls it off. The hair comes out at the root and the area is left smooth. There is always a little redness and irritation and there is a chance that hair on the next growth cycle, which is below the skin surface, will become ingrown.

Some beauticians will prepare the area with a mild topical anesthetic, but most won’t bother. Usually a sprinkling of talc is enough to degrease the skin and prepare the hairs for maximum wax adhesion. The cotton strips are pressed on in the general direction of hair growth and pulled off in the other direction. Some areas of the body, for example the shins, are fairly tolerant to this kind of pain. Other areas are not, as we shall see when we discuss bikini waxing.

Persian Wax, so-called because Persian women have been doing it for years, is a variation of waxing that involves no heat. Instead of melted wax, the solution is a sticky mixture of sugar, lemon juice and water. In fact the process is now more widely known as Sugaring. The solution can be made in a saucepan for pennies, and you can eat it. Most professionals feel that it fails to remove all of the hair in an area and repetition is required. It’s also a little messy and you’d better make sure there are no ants around.

Shaving costs the price of a razor and a little soap and it doesn’t hurt at all. It has to be done regularly unless you are weird enough to find dark, sharp stubble beautiful. The ends of the shaved hairs are sharp enough to pierce fabric. Certain areas of the body should never be shaved. If a man with thick curly hair on his chest shaves his chest, the thick, curly sharp-ended re-growth will irritate his chest in an unbearable manner, and he will have to keep it shaved bald to avoid the nasty ensuing rash. The only way out of the loop is to tolerate one painful re-growth and then get a chest wax. Hair clippers will cause the same problem.

Tweezers painfully pluck out one hair at a time from the root. A beautician will often use tweezers to pluck out a few stray hairs that were missed by the wax. Tweezers are most often used for eyebrow shaping, but eyebrows can be quickly waxed or sugared into shape also.

Electrolysis should be done professionally, even though some home kits of questionable quality are available. When an electric current is sent through a body hair, the root is destroyed and the hair can then be removed. The pain level varies from person to person and as with all methods, it hurts more in places of the body where there are more nerve endings. Sometimes the results can be permanent or close to permanent.

Laser technology is used for all kinds of things these days. Instead of an electrolysis needle in your follicle you can have a zap of laser light with the same result. It’s not painless, there is an after burn, it’s expensive, and sometimes the hair will just grow back.

Depilatories such as Nair have been around for years, and these days they don’t smell quite as bad as they used to. These creams dissolve the hair chemically so they can be gently wiped away with a wet cloth. Course hair is very resistant to the formula, and many areas of the body react to these creams with a red rash and even welts. Use with care in a well-ventilated bathroom, and remember, whatever chemicals touch your skin will be absorbed by your blood stream. Be nice to your organs and steer clear of harsh chemicals.

Hormonal growth inhibitors are liquids that are sprayed onto the skin. They mimic the effect of baldness to cause hair to cease to grow. Some people find they work, others don’t. They have not yet become a commonly used option, partly because there is no instant gratification. You have to wait and see if the hair will stop growing. Usually, when a person wants the hair off, they want it gone as soon as possible.

The male or female human body.

Working down towards the center of the earth we will discuss options for eyebrows, nostrils, upper lip, chin, neck, shoulders, arms, hands, back, underarms, chest or breasts, tummy, pubis, genitals (male and female), perineum, anus, buttocks, bikini area, legs, feet and toes.

The table above seems to favor waxing in many instances, but waxing is unbearable for many people. By all means experiment, but heed the warnings above.

Brazilian Wax

This has been alluded to throughout this article, and for the uninitiated, it deserves its own paragraph. Certain salons offer this service, but many refuse to do it for fear of unhygienic consequences. Suffice to say, a beautician will ask you to lie down and remove your panties and then raise your legs. She will sprinkle talc all over your butt, perineum and vagina, including the anus and within the labia. Hot wax will be spread over these areas and cotton strips will rip out your hair down to the roots. You will experience intense pain and the pain will continue afterwards. However, the result looks amazingly beautiful and feels even better. If you’re a nude dancer, you will get bigger tips.

Conclusion.

Removing hair from the root by waxing or plucking eventually causes re-growth to slow down or even stop entirely. Shaving never does. If the growth inhibitors become more established, they may eventually replace all of this torture, but until then, be brave, be smooth and don’t cuss and swear when you scream.

Margarita Dominguez is writing a screenplay about road rage in modern America. She maintains a hairless body and owns eight saxophones.

Feedback received about this article:

To Surprise! My Hubby, (who has been encouraging me for months to....well ...... "shave the cave") I selected the sugar based waxing kit from the pharmacy.

Yeah, foolish to try to do it myself, but I am one that is usually successful, at many at home endeavors. Plus, my embarrassment to go to a salon for such a procedure. I couldn't even confide in anyone, or even discuss the subject with my GYN. Silly Yeah, But we are talking about one of a woman's most personal areas. I could just imagine people giggling behind my back, making jokes about my anatomy. Geese.

Well, I was on a mission today, got the motivation to JUST DO IT , Shaving the kitty was not for me, I've had lots of bad experiences with the bikini line, so the razor was not an option.

Yes, something that would last a few weeks, low maintenance, but I stopped short of the REAL WAX, because of fear of irritating the "little man in the boat" and defeating the purpose entirely.

So here I am (in my squat), with mirror in hand carefully trimming, and following instructions to a TEE. Well, it wasn't long before I realized, what a frustrating mission this was about to become.
At first try, little hickeys appeared all over the traditional bikini line, and only about 50% of the dreaded little twiggys came off. The other 50% lay in a puddle of green goo, still attached of course. Maybe I'm not doing this right, I thought.

Trying not to give in to my better judgment, I then, was challenging myself to accomplish the mission with different amounts of goo, but to no avail. Little more goo,a little less, the same results.

Carefully, re-reading the instructions over and over, I was verbalizing out loud every step. Let's see, using the spatula in the direction of the hair growth, place cloth firmly, and in the opposite direction of growth...................... PULL.

AGHHH! I felt it, I did not want to believe it, I was truly in denial until I saw.........................the blood. I had torn the valley between the majora and the minora ouch!

Well , you can imagine what my powder room looked like at this point, sort of like a crime scene, blood, hair and strips of cloth with green goo, quite regrettable, I must say. Struggling to reach the medicine cabinet I cleansed well, and provided myself first aid until the bleeding stopped.

When there next to the antibiotic cream, I spied my razor. (No, I wasn't going to commit HAIRY KARY) I WAS Going to complete my mission!

That's right..... I looked stupid sitting there with a half bald boo-tay , and I can just imagine my husband , LOL now. I awaited calmly for him to arrive, and he was most excited at the prospect of doing the wild thang, until he saw that I was a candidate for stitches.

"Wait until the guys at work hear about this" he laughed. I looked at him and said (in my most feminine, lady like, calm manner) "You do and your next, I have plenty of green goo left over" " lets' do your balls first."

To complete the disaster, I go online and read that I most likely I would have spent only about $15 more to have a professional waxer do the job , at a discreet location. Lets see compared to to MEDICAL Bill , Geeze ,my vanity & modesty aren't worth the lousy money.

signed,
Learned The Hard Way, But learned never the less.

I was accidentally shot when I was in the Navy. Compared even to that, waxing is unbearably painful to me, and I always get a rash or even folliculitis (infected follicles) afterwards. I recommend shaving everywhere. If you have a sensitive area such as the chest, then if you must remove that hair, try laser because shaving can produce a rash there when it re-grows. better hairy than itchy! By the way I'm a bodybuilder, male and hairless, and that includes my scalp and my private areas! - Rajit@------.net

My twin sister and I tried Brazilian wax for the first time after reading this article. I found that it wasn't that bad, actually, but my sister experienced so much pain she couldn't calm down for two days. Strangely enough, her re-growth is slower than mine, and we're identical! I'll do it again, she won't... ever! - Lis******@aol.com

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